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I (28F) honestly would be frustrated with it too. But I can be a little finicky about that kind of stuff.
On the opposite side, I will often start talking about something I was thinking about with no surrounding context—or I will talk without using proper nouns and just a bunch of he/she/they/them to wear my husband is like, “I have no idea who you are talking about.”
But I will always pause, back track, fix it, and try again.
There are times where I feel that he makes connections to things that I don’t understand just because it’s not the same way I would view it.
In the example of your wife saying the friend is doing well because he’s a protagonist. A protagonist in and of itself is the “good guy” of a story (or often the main character). But a protagonist in the personality test has less to do with “being the good guy” and more just an explanation of how he is likely to respond to the situations around him and the people he interacts with.
In instances like this, it could be less that one of you is wrong in your understanding and more so that you guys are just coming at it from different angles.
When that happens, just ask her to explain her train of thought. It’s okay to say, “I think that’s an interesting take or connection, but I don’t fully understand it. Can you explain your train of thought so I can understand your viewpoint better?”
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Less than a week? What are you trying to hold on to
I (28F) honestly would be frustrated with it too. But I can be a little finicky about that kind of stuff.
On the opposite side, I will often start talking about something I was thinking about with no surrounding context—or I will talk without using proper nouns and just a bunch of he/she/they/them to wear my husband is like, “I have no idea who you are talking about.”
But I will always pause, back track, fix it, and try again.
There are times where I feel that he makes connections to things that I don’t understand just because it’s not the same way I would view it.
In the example of your wife saying the friend is doing well because he’s a protagonist. A protagonist in and of itself is the “good guy” of a story (or often the main character). But a protagonist in the personality test has less to do with “being the good guy” and more just an explanation of how he is likely to respond to the situations around him and the people he interacts with.
In instances like this, it could be less that one of you is wrong in your understanding and more so that you guys are just coming at it from different angles.
When that happens, just ask her to explain her train of thought. It’s okay to say, “I think that’s an interesting take or connection, but I don’t fully understand it. Can you explain your train of thought so I can understand your viewpoint better?”
Did you save everything? I'd ask your lawyer to start filings ASAP to ensure he doesn't try to abscond with your kid.
IDK I don’t even Google things on my work computer. I couldn’t imagine keeping my cheating on it lol
I also work in HR, so…
Sounds like you shouldn’t marry this guy