Shit or get off the pot. Its been six years and you are 33. She wants to be a wife not your replacement Mommy. Its not a missunderstanding its an ultimatum.
Its been six years , decide what you want and go for it.
Having different opinions sometimes it's just the way it is even on big issues. If you can live with that then power to you
However the problem here is if there's a difference of opinion about something that actually can impact your lives as in if you get pregnant That's a whole different story.
I mean if you have a different opinion on electric cars then I guess you can live with that difference as long as you're all paying for your own cars
But if you have a different opinion about pregnancy and choice and there's a possibility that 1 of you can get pregnant…. That feels like a boundary I personally could not live with
I have one big problem with letting your daughter believe that her father is this good man she can love and depend on. What if your condition can be inherited? Whill he hate her too? What if, at some point in her life she actually needs him? What if at that point he decides that, for whatever reason, he hates her? Don't send your daughter weaponless into that battle. This is a man who should only be used as needed and never trusted or be relied upon. And your daughter should be ready to fight for herself, her happiness, and her future.
So then leave him. Trying to tell him what kind of porn he can look at is incredibly controlling.
Also cigs and porn aren’t comparable. If you never snooped through his phone, the porn thing would have absolutely no effect on you. Can’t say the same for cigarettes
I would have thought about sending him a bill for £3, frankly.
– £3 for t-shirt
+ £1.5 for t-shirt storage
+ £1.5 for t-shirt disposal
+ £1.5 for t-shirt tracking (keeping track of his shit)
+ £1.5 for t-shirt administration (creating and sending the bill)
—————–
£1.0 (net 30 days)
He's a spoiled brat.
Not really just wanted to talk about it cos I know some people take longer
Agreed. He gives Mitch a fair chance to share any objection.
Shit or get off the pot. Its been six years and you are 33. She wants to be a wife not your replacement Mommy. Its not a missunderstanding its an ultimatum.
Its been six years , decide what you want and go for it.
Having different opinions sometimes it's just the way it is even on big issues. If you can live with that then power to you
However the problem here is if there's a difference of opinion about something that actually can impact your lives as in if you get pregnant That's a whole different story.
I mean if you have a different opinion on electric cars then I guess you can live with that difference as long as you're all paying for your own cars
But if you have a different opinion about pregnancy and choice and there's a possibility that 1 of you can get pregnant…. That feels like a boundary I personally could not live with
Does the ex boyfriend have a criminal record that would have turned up on a background check?
No she pays for the mortgage of a house her parents live in a different state. I am paying for our rent which is a bit over 1k a month.
I have one big problem with letting your daughter believe that her father is this good man she can love and depend on. What if your condition can be inherited? Whill he hate her too? What if, at some point in her life she actually needs him? What if at that point he decides that, for whatever reason, he hates her? Don't send your daughter weaponless into that battle. This is a man who should only be used as needed and never trusted or be relied upon. And your daughter should be ready to fight for herself, her happiness, and her future.
Move, your life is ahead of you. Dont let the present hold you back
Discard her like an empty pizza box because you don't know how many frat boys have been eating out of that.
Like people tell the truth about that ?
So then leave him. Trying to tell him what kind of porn he can look at is incredibly controlling.
Also cigs and porn aren’t comparable. If you never snooped through his phone, the porn thing would have absolutely no effect on you. Can’t say the same for cigarettes