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Date: November 22, 2022
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A lot of women think they cannot do better because let’s be real… this is most guys. Most guys do the weaponized incompetence thing. Most guys are not well-tuned to their partner’s needs. Please be mindful of that.
She needs therapy/she cheated and is projecting as you said. Just get a divorce. Someone with her mindset cannot be convinced otherwise and you deserve a partner that trusts you.
Well, the good thing is you are only 5 months into this so you won't be out much if you end it. The bad thing is you are 5 months into this and she doesn't appear to be as fully committed to you as you are to her.
HOWEVER….. DO NOT let her know you checked her phone. I say this because you may need this “ace in the hole” down the road to check things later.
To be honest, in the grand scheme of things, it appears the only real issue is she doesn't want to totally cut him from her life and if he is her first anything, that is somewhat reasonable at this early stage of your relationship. It doesn't matter what is said between the two of you, it is still ONLY 5 months.
I would trust her BUT VERIFY on a regular basis with messages to her friends where she is at and what her mindset is. However, don't pull back or distance yourself, yet. In fact, if I were you, I would “UP my game” and buy her silly little inexpensive gifts, some flowers at least once a week, take her to places she is interested in even if you aren't, write silly love notes and put them in her purse, jacket pocket, places she will find them later, etc.
If that doesn't make her want to “forget him” then probably nothing more than time will. She is running on pure emotion with very little logic so you need to use “emotions” to totally win her over.
You are not out of this game by a long shot and I would say you have the leg up so use it and go after her. As I said, you all may be saying the love words, but it still has only been 5 months. More time needs to elapse before you can get an actual feel for how things really are in the relationship and your feelings for one another. Words are nice but actions tell you everything.
I also would try to find some way for her to tell you about the car and anything else you feel you need to know about them and that way, you can head off any possible rekindling desires by him before they can really get going. The only problem I see is her going over to his house alone. That's not really cool so you need to find a way to “discover” the car situation and then you can tell her that people in a monogamous relationship don't go over or meet with their ex's with any amount of regularity especially alone.
As for her telling her girlfriends or female family members about you guys and your love life, if she is saying good things, that really isn't a big issue at this point. If she isn't saying good things, then find out the “complaints” and fix them. If she is telling other guys, especially the ex about your relationship and/or love life, that needs to stop.
Don't get emotional and give away your advantages to finding out info. Knowledge is power for you right now and you need to know as much as possible whether good or bad.
Best of luck and keep me apprised.
This sounds like hell for everyone involved. Not hyperbolically.
Fuck them. You've earned that graduation
All of it.
And for how long? Did he stop or just in front of you. A guy that doesn’t see a problem with something doesn’t maintain behaviour.
A guy that isn’t jealous of protecting his relationship is equally not invested or worried about losing you.
You sure you want to gamble on this working out. You have more to lose as dating gets harder over time.
A library is the least relaxing environment and they don't tend to open in the evenings in Ireland. And the weather is terrible for going to parks.
He's mentally unstable and owns a gun. Why do you need more than that? Your judgement for what is ok or acceptable + safe is totally broken. Your life is very much in danger.