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The key here is the question, if your partner actually wants to work on the situation or is content as it is. If he does want to work on it, then there are piles of self help books (though usually aimed at hetero couples) out there on how to tackle this together. Marriage counsellors are also great at tackling a lack of intimacy. However, the pre-requisite is always a willingness of both partners to engage. From your description, it currently doesn’t sound like your partner wishes to engage at all. From his answers, I’m not even sure if he is taking the situation seriously.
You need to sit him down and ask him, if he wants things to change. Spell out clearly, that you are not willing to live like this long term, especially with him blocking all attempts to even discuss the problem. DEFINITELY have this fixed before you two get married!
Why do guys who pearl-clutch over women's nipples always go to the dick comparison?
First, I want to say what a lovely person you seem to be. Your focus on the positive is wonderful.
I was raised the same way it sounds like your girlfriend was raised. You'd do anything for people. The problems begin when you don't tell someone who has unreturned feelings 'no.' Then if you tell them no repeatedly and they still won't stop with attention and gifts, truly the kindest thing you can do is tell them to jump off. With certain people, a head nod in their direction will mean they have a chance to be with you. When you really get to the root of it, you're not doing the kindest thing by accepting those. I've had a number of stalkers and people that don't give up over the years because I never wanted to be unkind (not that I think I'm all that, I'm not). But it truly wasn't kind to do anything but discontinue all contact. Their mental health is not your responsibility but allowing that to continue instead of them spending that time moving forward or getting help…not the kindest thing. I have stories for days about this, if you think any might help your beautiful souled girlfriend.
There are two more factors, though. First, it is okay to prioritize yourself. That's not selfish or wrong. It can be very hard to realize that you don't believe that putting yourself first is the right thing to do. And it's confusing when you're trying your best to consider everyone's feelings and you truly don't see what's best. But a friend is not a good friend when they say, “my need, that is making you uncomfortable, and putting myself before your relationship, is more important to me.” He knows her enough to know that he's the one who is causing her to hurt. He's playing on her kindness, and that's not very kind of him.
The other factor is that she might want (trying to avoid the terms 'need' or 'should') to prioritize your relationship. I feel like you think you may be asking too much or are worried you seem jealous or controlling. I don't think you are. From everything you've told us, your gut is yelling at you. Trust your gut. Your girlfriend trusts you and you have an outside perspective that she doesn't.
There is a ton of emotional labor that goes into this kind of decision when you're like me. But it is possible to cut through all of it and just say, “be kind and draw those boundaries. Prioritize your own well-being and that of your relationship.”
Listen to your body. If something doesn’t feel good or “right,” you can stop at any time. This might sound like TMI, but it’s important: do lots of foreplay. It’ll make you feel more comfortable by easing you into the act of sex and also make penetration easier. Don’t forget that sex is about the both of you!
Your BF is MASSIVELY tone deaf and in one fell swoop, he managed to not only disrespect your father to his face, but make himself sound like he condones and sympathizes with the murder of people in your fathers profession.
Does your father go around shooting innocent people? Does he deserve to die? Would your BF find it “understandable” if someone wanted to kill him? Would you be Ok with people talking about your dad like that? No? Think for a moment.
No offense, but at best, your BF sounds like a social moron and at worst, sounds like he's rooting for the murder of police.
There are a time and place for things. This was not one of them. Your BF needs to apologise to your dad, your dad acted remarkably calm and I can totally understand why he was upset.
Sympathizing for the murder of police because the force has a few bad apples is no better than sympathizing for the murder of POC because there's a few bad apples. There's a lot of injustice in this world but normal people don't empathise with & defend murder.
Your dad went through a lot of grief that day your BF's reaction to the tragedy was basically “They deserved it”.
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You have touched on a really hot topic for Reddit. But I'm going to take the risk and jump in as well.
First off, you are absolutely allowed to have a hard boundary around porn in your relationship. Everybody gets to decide what behaviors work for them and what don't. He's also free to say that he'll only be in a relationship if he can watch porn 24 hours a day.
People have lots of different reasons for objecting to porn, and most of them make sense to me. I used to feel very neutral about it until I started meeting people in the industry. The vast majority of women involved, especially in the type of porn that's popular now, do not have a good experience in the industry. It totally changed what I felt and how strongly I felt it, and I am not comfortable with pornography being a large part of my or my partner's sex life, unless I know for sure that it is ethically produced.
Of that being said, it sounds like this is really wrapped up with your own hangups and self-esteem issues. Maybe one is exacerbating the other. But also he sounds immature if you aren't able to have conversations about this without him becoming hostile to you. Adults need to be capable of being kind and patient with each other, even if they are disagreeing to the point that the relationship will end.
But about you feeling like you aren't his type, that just leads me to believe that this relationship isn't the one for you. They're just too many incompatibilities here.
Congratulations to you are in order, because you got to realize this guy ain't it only 3 months in! Leave & don't look back.
Divorce him. He was sending that dick pic to someone who wasn't you – his affair partner. Drunk, he decided to try his luck with your sister while you're pregnant with his child and caring for his older child.
I hate to pile on, yet men who would cheat tend to do so when their partner is pregnant or caring for a young child. The woman does not make him the center of their lives and their jealousy over their own children acts out. I'm very sorry that this happened to you. My mother divorced my cheating father when I was 9 months old. It was hard for her to raise me, I'm sure. She remarried 9 years later, she has great friends and a full life.
My mother waited until I found out my father cheated on my stepmom to tell me why she divorced my father, as she wanted me to have a relationship with my father. It might be a difficult time. Yet you won't be worrying about him and can raise your children the way that you want to. The only thing to work out would be shared custody.
I say no matter what, pick the job opportunity. That will be way more likely to lead to good places than a 20s relationship
If you don’t stand up for this time, you are forever doomed. You need to make sure your fiancé knows her brother can be “funny” to anyone but he has to respect you.
Do u think she is cheating?
How many times have you met during the month?
I know what would be the Reddit's reaction but I have moved to my gf after a month or two and it worked fine. You just need to keep the way out.
Just suck it up and listen. He's not going to live forever. He probably listened to you asking “why” a million times as a kid.
I mean, its that, or he is trying to build a social media branding.
However, taking the ring off for photos is highly suspicious to me.
This is exactly how my partner feels. Which I respect and he knows he loves dogs, and he has a huge heart for animals. But our independence means more to him than taking care of something my mom wanted me to be responsible for. I understand how the whole situation is unfair, but I've never given up an animal before. I actually had a hard time adjusting to her breed because she's a small Maltipoo vs my last dog was a bone-mouth shar pei. He almost looked like a pitbull, very strong and had an intimidating face but he was such a baby. The puppy now is this 5 pound teddy bear that I step on all the time ? The window of being able to go out has been rough on me too. Since I share most of all the responsibilities, I've had to cut time out of my work schedule to be at home to take care of her properly.
“Your shit is out on the curb” is not an ultimatum.
Think he did himself and you a favor..
It was indeed her last shot
Maybe he is just one of those men who don't connect with other men?
I'm in the reverse. I'm a woman who just cannot connect with other women but connect well with men. Not romantically, just in a way I don't connect with women. I have no idea why, but it's just a fact.
WTRF???
Dude. You need an upgrade.