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Date: November 5, 2022
Lol you are gonna shame her for having casual sex before you met? Get over yourself.
Call her parents or other trusted person, pack her stuff and break up. Call the police if she threatens harm to herself, you or property.
Have an IUD put in and do not take it out. Also find a man who is worth a damn. This one obviously isn’t.
Needed that thank u but the Weird and part is he claims to be a virgin
Maybe I’ve been on Reddit too long but I see right through this
So he is unfaithful, manipulative and want you to give up on your cat ? Leave him life can be better than that
If during work hours it’s an issue. Government job. Tax payers money.
ok, she needing to go to the dentist or have a eye exam doesn't automatically means that they have the money for it. so you either shut up or cough up the money yourself, it's very easy to judge op from the comfort of your home, but how would you behave if you were in the same situation? 35$ for food the rest of the month, think about that.
ok, she needing to go to the dentist or have a eye exam doesn't automatically means that they have the money for it. so you either shut up or cough up the money yourself, it's very easy to judge op from the comfort of your home, but how would you behave if you were in the same situation? 35$ for food the rest of the month, think about that.
Neighbor for the win! I imagine you were scared for a long time. What an intrusion of privacy
I think this is one of those times when a man tries to compliment a women and it goes completely wrong
That second paragraph really hits hard. It's hard to see it until it's too late. Been in a similar situation recently except she wasn't my GF. I was happily being there for her until a few days ago she just deletes me from everywhere and when I ask her how did I wrong her she just replies that she is amending things with her abusive ex. (Who doesn't let her have male friend and stuff, that kind of creeper)
That second paragraph really hits hard. It's hard to see it until it's too late. Been in a similar situation recently except she wasn't my GF. I was happily being there for her until a few days ago she just deletes me from everywhere and when I ask her how did I wrong her she just replies that she is amending things with her abusive ex. (Who doesn't let her have male friend and stuff, that kind of creeper)
how do you call a guy who wants to have sex with another girl with my GF IN THE SAME ROOM, and joking about her joining them? How do you call someone who bullies a girl who IS IN HER ROOM AND JUST WANTS TO STUDY? Of course you call him a nice fella, according to the american standards, where everything is upside down
So thats it huh? Once you commit to each-other. Game over. Pack it in. Say bye to your friends. Say bye to your life. Your partner is now the center of attention. You don't need anything else. If it does not involve your partner, you're not allowed to do it.
This is going to lead to a disaster. If you bend to this, you will grow massive resentment and you will become sick of your partner.
You've lost your identity and gave up all the other things that made you happy…for what? The sake of being happy with him. Only to realize that being happy with him, is not enough to be happy in life. You will then learn that the other things are a requirement for your overall mental health… isolation is a curse, not a gift.
You'll be handcuffed in marriage, not someone who can live freely.
I would love to see you stand up for your freedom and go. If he gets bent out of shape for it, that's his deal. And if he breaks it off, so be it. He is offering you a shit deal.
My GF goes on vacations, girls night out, lake/cabin trips with her friends all the time. What do I say? Have fun, bring me back some good food.
You can go for your once in a rare occasion girls trip. Sorry, but I am not a fan of your relationship, it sounds restrictive rather than unconditional love. You don't need to put up with his BS.
I don’t actually care. I’d just never heard of anyone doing this other than him, and he suggested me posting the story here to see if he was alone or not
Maybe because she loves you I think it's cute
I knew cats were babies, but I didn't know is was the other way around too
The dude likes looking at hot women… I’m not seeing any issues other then your own insecurities
Well according to every man in this thread when he watches porn he’s imagining fucking that girl so tell me how that’s not supposed to make me feel uncomfortable
Your partner’s intelligence is not the absence of your own.
Lacking understanding about things like calculus and data structures doesn’t mean you aren’t an intellectual. He may understand that a bit better, but you understand how to communicate with and teach kids better. His knowledge is no more or less greater than yours
I have lately I’ve been keeping myself on a tight leash I’ve kept my phone out a lot more been telling her who I text and just been more of a trustworthy person like I’m doing my best to get on her good graces and I know it’s not gonna happen over night but I’m just hoping I didn’t screw up to much I know I fucked up hard real hard
You are not the cause of his drinking. He is making a choice every time he drinks – you are not pouring it down his throat.
You may benefit from some anger management or general therapy, though.
As for him, he needs to get into treatment immediately. If he doesn't get and stay sober, he will be of no use to you as a partner or father. You need to do the right thing by your children. They do not deserve to live in a home with an alcoholic. Time to let him know he either gets it treated, or you are out. Save your children.
He played a stupid game and won a stupid prize. Don't feel bad about it.
Wow!
He is way out of line here.
Tell him you don't have to justify your choice and he is not in a position to tell you how to live your life. You have only one life and you will live it the way you want. There shouldn't be a discussion or an argument about it. He has no right to nag you or be angry at you for it. If he can't cope with it, he could move out and keep dating or you could break up.
It looks like he is miserable at his job and wants you to feel miserable as well. It will be fair in his mind.
And you are not “helping” financially. You contribute at least equally, and based on your edit, even more than him. You need to state it very clearly to him.
And there's an even larger gap between someone who pays their monthly expenses with inherited income and someone who works for a living. That's already obscene when you consider how many if us are pay check to paycheck.
No great answers, but my thoughts are:
It’s not (about) you! You’ve done nothing wrong. Your parents lesser treatment (at its fairest) is likely a result of being wildly unprepared to be parents to you so young. It’s not about you, or your fault. Be confident in your self worth!
You’ll likely be an “auntie” more than a sister. Ensure it by not letting her make you into a surrogate parent with much of the work, but none of the credit of parenting. Shorthand for develop your independence and create separation now in this regard to avoid the issue in the future.
Hope that helps!
There’s no such thing. He’s just being an asshole.
No great answers, but my thoughts are:
It’s not (about) you! You’ve done nothing wrong. Your parents lesser treatment (at its fairest) is likely a result of being wildly unprepared to be parents to you so young. It’s not about you, or your fault. Be confident in your self worth!
You’ll likely be an “auntie” more than a sister. Ensure it by not letting her make you into a surrogate parent with much of the work, but none of the credit of parenting. Shorthand for develop your independence and create separation now in this regard to avoid the issue in the future.
Hope that helps!
I've asked my wife to do this but she said no
Damn the porn and sex addicts really downvoted you lmao
WTF man. Pick a stake here. Either she’s too different and you don’t love her. Or you do love her and you’re willing to put in the work and compromise to make the relationship work.
Those are your only choices.
(A) breakup
(B) put in some hard work and compromise.
I have a semi-colon tattoo on my wrist so I get people mentioning it fairly often. I don't personally mind if they acknowledge the symbolism but it crosses the line when they ask how I attempted. I suggest saying something like “hey, I saw your tattoo and I'm glad you're still here.”
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Yeah I'm pretty much done with all that nonsense with my coworker. This past week we changed offices and we're no longer working together in the same environment. I've had frank discussions with her and I understand my naivety now.
I'm in therapy now and on antidepressants that are helping quite a bit. I've reached out to some old friends to see if they wanted to hangout but they're either in different states or never replied.
Her friend convinced her to do it. She might be starving for attention. She might be having behavioral health issues. Or she might be bi. Any of those might be the reason… or not.
Stop telling people what to do who they can be friends with. If you’ve got a problem with it JUST DONT DATE THEM
Just so you know asking for open relationship would like telling him it's so bad that you really need sex with other people to be happy.
Go to couples therapy with him, both of you really need it. He needs to go to proper specialised doctor for ED issues as well even if it's seen as embarassing.
Do not cheat, you will hurt him less by just ending things.
There are a lot of comments speculating on what he could mean but your best bet is to just follow up with him and ask if he will be telling all these women interested in him that he has a girlfriend now. How he responds to that will be more telling because right now… yeah, it is a bit perplexing lol.
Well … technically still his wife for the time being lol
Sounds like the seven year Itch. I hope you find it passes soon!
Dude. This is an absolute train wreck. You are talking about adopting a child and you have no idea if that’s even a feasible option. This grown. Ass. Woman is literally setting you up to provide for her after she dumps you, and she’s not even being sneaky about it.
It seems like your mind is made up though. PLEASE remember to update when this explodes. I’m more invested in this relationship than she is ?
You shouldn't do this to yourself or to her. She needs to figure out how to become financially independent.
You shouldn't do this to yourself or to her. She needs to figure out how to become financially independent.
Do what u gotta do to heal! You’ll find someone who actively chooses you without all the ghosting and confusion
It's a leading question – it's like asking someone “when are you going to stop punching children?”
Doing it all means you’re going to harbor more resentments and feel more stress than she is, and when you get frustrated it may seem to her that you’re freaking out about nothing because she doesn’t understand. You really need to get her to do literally anything so that she understands why you need to nap, and so that she doesn’t become a bum tbh. Doing it all and letting her not carry weight may actually end up destroying your relationship. I obviously don’t know her true contribution or yours, but it’s something to keep in mind regardless.
Get a paternity test, my dude.
There's a difference between “I miss having sex with you” (using an I-statement to convey feelings) and “can we have sex?” (applying pressure) and being emotional when the persons says “no”.
Lots of people seem to fail to understand this distinction.
She's moving in one month. Put your head down, stop giving in to her demands, leave her shit where she leaves it, don't clean up after her, and keep track of your kitty.
These are the kinds of guys who aren't capable of handling adult responsibility and marry to offload all thought, planning, decision-making and otherwise adulting off on another person. The reason they act this way is because they wanted a parent, got a parent and now are living that way.
I appreciate your viewpoint. And I believe your advice on retracting front the relationship is wise.
Otherwise, I think we are at an impasse. Her behavior is unacceptable, we are agreed. But I still love her very much, even if this issue means we cannot be together. And I wish with the utmost sincerity that she continues to improve, as I will attest I’ve seen her seek out help and change behaviors.
You do not stop her from going. You break up with her. She is not relationship worthy.
What was the argument about?
I am so sorry.
She’s just manipulating you to get her way. She definitely has some control issues. Seem she’s emotionally dependant on people and can’t be on her own. Think it’s time for some relationship counselling.