Sex isn't a timed given you get from women after 2.45 weeks or something. It happens when it happens, and since he's treating her roughly and making all sexual contact painful, of course she's holding back and not wanting to sleep with him. It takes one wrong trust inside of her to give her a very painful vaginal tear.
Also she doesn't seem to tell anything bad about the other guy. For all respective reasons she kinda gives me the impression the dude was so grounded and mature, that it made her realize of what she could have done in our relationship and that's where she started feeling guilty for not trying anymore.
Nothing you can do mate. She made up her mind, tell her to pack a bag and go. She can come get her stuff after she finds a place. Have your self a good cry, eat a great meal and do stuff you enjoy. Life will get better mate.
If you wanted something more it was your job to say so. Now she wants to end the FWB status. Rule: if you allow FWB in the first place, you must be willing to give it up if the partner wants that. No conflict, no tears, just be cool about the change.
FWB ends up being a mistake for a lot of people. A lot of times, someone gets feelings, and they aren't reciprocated. Next time, start anything like this with your eyes wide open and use your words to move a relationship along.
But it will be harder to be a good father to the first batch of kids if you are separated from them and then have a new young family. The new kids become the priority because they are younger and he lives with them.
Tbh, I’m only here until I find something better
It'll work out don't be no one's sucker!!!
This was my thought. This seems more like an idea he gets from toxic sources, not an organic thought about his wife or a projection of cheating
Sex isn't a timed given you get from women after 2.45 weeks or something. It happens when it happens, and since he's treating her roughly and making all sexual contact painful, of course she's holding back and not wanting to sleep with him. It takes one wrong trust inside of her to give her a very painful vaginal tear.
Divorce is easier than trying to communicate with a stubborn child.
Op based on some of your responses…please for the love of god get an STD test.
He lied because I had asked him before what debts he has and he said only the student ones, nothing else.
We live together and have been together for 5 years. No joint account. I just feel betrayed.
Also she doesn't seem to tell anything bad about the other guy. For all respective reasons she kinda gives me the impression the dude was so grounded and mature, that it made her realize of what she could have done in our relationship and that's where she started feeling guilty for not trying anymore.
Nothing you can do mate. She made up her mind, tell her to pack a bag and go. She can come get her stuff after she finds a place. Have your self a good cry, eat a great meal and do stuff you enjoy. Life will get better mate.
Oh, the early 20s midlife crisis…
I hope she's not plotting to kill him first since she only takes dead things fur. Not weird. At all.
hides in the closet
If you wanted something more it was your job to say so. Now she wants to end the FWB status. Rule: if you allow FWB in the first place, you must be willing to give it up if the partner wants that. No conflict, no tears, just be cool about the change.
FWB ends up being a mistake for a lot of people. A lot of times, someone gets feelings, and they aren't reciprocated. Next time, start anything like this with your eyes wide open and use your words to move a relationship along.
That's good to know. I didn't look hard for the pricing I saw.
Run run run. Being second to a ghost is pathetic.
Why do you assume its fiction… I have seen people mess up their lifes far worse than this.
But it will be harder to be a good father to the first batch of kids if you are separated from them and then have a new young family. The new kids become the priority because they are younger and he lives with them.