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You really should start packing your things because from “you are the exception” to “you are just like everyone else” is one or two worse arguments.
It's possible he fell down some rabbit hole during quarantine and got piss in his brain or perhaps he tried to cheat and got laughed out of town. Either way it's likely to turn into abusive relationship with time unless he stops blaming half the population for few bad examples.
Most parents take bath photos of their kids so I think you’d be fine. It would be a good idea to talk to the police again and mention that now that you’ve gotten your child’s drug test results handled you’d like to discuss something else that made you worried, and bring up the photos and the masturbating with the kid in the room. Also mention he called and left a vm (is that right?) insisting you not drug test the kid.
Don’t answer any more of his calls. Mute him, don’t block. Turn off read receipts. This is evidence gathering. Check it occasionally to see if he’s said something threatening. Make sure none of your apps share your location.
also I did just read it and I feel for you man. I really do. No one deserves to be treated like that. But I stand by what I wrote.. She did all of this behind your back and continues to do so. Then she will get upset with you for going thru her phone and try to turn it around on you. Then will beg for your forgiveness when the other guy finds out you dumped her ass and now he is the next guy in line, which he doesnt want to be at all. You have to break up and go no contact. You will never trust her again im afraid.
I agree I just feel hurt that after 5 years it was just ended over a quick text message. I think your right that it's time to move on and let go of these desperate feelings. It just went from good to bad so fast with zero context as to why and I think I'm feeling confused and wanting closure from that.
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I'd rather stay home than go to that. I might fake sickness next year.
Seriously, this! Fuck your ten years. You either lose your relationship or lose your life. Which is more important lady?
You really should start packing your things because from “you are the exception” to “you are just like everyone else” is one or two worse arguments.
It's possible he fell down some rabbit hole during quarantine and got piss in his brain or perhaps he tried to cheat and got laughed out of town. Either way it's likely to turn into abusive relationship with time unless he stops blaming half the population for few bad examples.
Most parents take bath photos of their kids so I think you’d be fine. It would be a good idea to talk to the police again and mention that now that you’ve gotten your child’s drug test results handled you’d like to discuss something else that made you worried, and bring up the photos and the masturbating with the kid in the room. Also mention he called and left a vm (is that right?) insisting you not drug test the kid.
Don’t answer any more of his calls. Mute him, don’t block. Turn off read receipts. This is evidence gathering. Check it occasionally to see if he’s said something threatening. Make sure none of your apps share your location.
I hope you and your son will be okay.
Omg it’s chatgpt, it’s infiltrated Reddit
oh my god you are also stupid.
also I did just read it and I feel for you man. I really do. No one deserves to be treated like that. But I stand by what I wrote.. She did all of this behind your back and continues to do so. Then she will get upset with you for going thru her phone and try to turn it around on you. Then will beg for your forgiveness when the other guy finds out you dumped her ass and now he is the next guy in line, which he doesnt want to be at all. You have to break up and go no contact. You will never trust her again im afraid.
Yes, she was talking to a friend about it. What do you think it could be? what kind of shit?
Wtf
I agree I just feel hurt that after 5 years it was just ended over a quick text message. I think your right that it's time to move on and let go of these desperate feelings. It just went from good to bad so fast with zero context as to why and I think I'm feeling confused and wanting closure from that.
Many women don’t like large. It can be painful.
He is enjoying retirement 45 years too soon.
Your friend felt more guilt than your fiance.
You got the truth from your friend, not your fiance.
She initiated it.
That's 3 strikes by my count. At a minimum, you need to get that ring back because marriage should be off the table.