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It is super inappropriate for him to speak to potential workplaces on your behalf. That makes you look incapable and less employable so he needs to stop doing that.
But the rest is confusing to me. When you say date, are in in a relationship? How long have you known him? If it’s new, then it’s unusual for him to be so invested and involved.
Tale as old as time.
Find better friends. This is nothing you can work through. He will do that again and again if it suits him.
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Being called an alcoholic isn't an insult.
He has his own bank account and is using you to pay for everything. Take your money and put it in an account in only your name – and stop paying for everything
Okay, Mr.MeMeMe, the world doesn't revolve around you 24/7.
She will end the night in his bed. Its a tale as old as time
>> I decided to not talk to guy friend again but I met him again due to his insistence.
Yeah, you got to get a handle on this to mature as an adult. If you don't want to meet with somone, you don't. You don't let them “insist” you into doing it anyway. Your bf is being incredibly cool about this, and yeah, of course you should tell him you met with Ed again. You probably feel guilty because you aren't being stand-up when your bf has been, and the contrast between you is embarassing.
I get communicating this with her would be best. But I think it’s nice to sometimes have things done for you out of initiative rather than having to ask for it. So I’m here for ideas. I don’t know if that makes sense.
How easy life can be right xD. Anyone that is mature knows its that easy and that ex'es can hardly stay friends, especially when both were emotionally invested in the relationship.
My bad, she is not a gullible person. She did tell me though that her recruiter just straight up lied to her and she can't even become an officer until after college. But, she went along the lines of “…it's too late I've already signed the documents”.
You’re judging someone you live by things he wrote a long time ago and wasn’t meant for you; shallow was already in play.
without knowing the information you lied about, it’s a bit difficult to see whether you should come clean. generally, building a foundation of trust is important in a long term relationship.
ask yourself this: if she found out down the road from someone other than you, would she be upset?
Should he have pissed inside her? Why is this not an accident? I don't see any compelling evidence other than he has a dick so it must have been deliberate.
He continued all over the bed because it was an accident, he couldn't have stopped himself. That's how accidents work.
Why do you think it was not an accident? While uncommon in young men, urinary incontinence absolutely happens.
Honestly, your friends sound like they are right, nd this romanticised idea of men with trauma is really gross. I have known women like this and it comes off as incredibly immature and kind of pathetic. Life isn't a film – people's trauma isn't a plot device. They're real people and their trauma has devastating effects for them, yet you seek it out and like it? Ew.
Overtime and self employed are not the same thing. You realize that, right?
But yes, if you are self employed and don’t have GUARANTEED income each month, you should take that into account in your budgeting and not DEPEND on it.
Why are you objecting to the compromise of “when she gets overtime she pays into a mutually agreed upon fund”? Why do you insist that she pat even on weeks that she does not receive overtime?
More importantly for her purposes, they would definitely not prove that he is NOT going to be an abuser.
Focus on your recovery. When you have stable ground in your mind, you can worry about the rest.
You're not compatible with her.
She wants you to 100% take care of her and her family (kid and mom and so on). You want a partner who is willing to contribute accordingly, right? You're not expecting 50-50 or 30-70, but you want someone who can and will contribute when they can. It's not going to be her because in her mind, you should be happy to pay for her 100% since you're her partner.
What you can do is, tell her that you guys are not compatible as you both want different things. Break up with her and go your own way after that.
My ideal relationship with him, with no changes to our core dynamic, would be maybe 3-4 phone calls a year and seeing him every couple/few years (he doesn’t live close). I don’t need or desire any more than that.
I’m HUGE on guilting myself and when I get weekly voicemails “hi call me back as soon as you can,” I eventually guilt myself into calling. He’s even done the thing where he makes it sound super important and I call in a slight panic, fully expecting something like a cancer diagnosis, and then it’s nothing important whatsoever. And I hate mental games like that.
You're not her boyfriend. You're her weed dealer.
Yeah this is a method not grounded in reality.
Between two dudes the response is “hey shut the fuck up pls thx” and if they act weirdly defensive you say “I don’t like how you treat me and we are all friends here. Your jokes ain’t funny so knock it off”