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I'm sorry to hear about your break up. Break ups are always difficult, especially when you have been together for a long time and have strong feelings for each other. It sounds like you are feeling a lot of pain and anger right now, which is completely normal. It's okay to feel these emotions, but it's important to remember that you can't control what your ex-girlfriend does or feels. The best thing you can do for yourself right now is to focus on your own well-being and try to take care of yourself as much as possible. This may mean taking some time for yourself, spending time with friends and family, or even seeking professional help if you feel like you need it. It's important to remember that you are not alone and that there are people who care about you and want to help you through this difficult time.
lmao your comments make you seem like the delivery man
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OP, I come from a house hold where my mom was always naked or at least panties around the house. I've also showered w my dad when I was young but I have no recollection of that. All I know is, that seeing my mom consistently nude and proud of her body really helped me be comfortable in my own and I had way less body issues than other girls I grew up w whose moms didn't do that. Don't make it weird bc it isn't weird, it'll help your daughters grow up to be much more comfortable w themselves.
Questions are questions, they don't imply anything
The questions you were asking imply that OP's troubles are the result of some kind of lack of affection on her part, which is a very old sexist idea.
That seems to be exactly what the issue is. Why on earth do you think it's sexist?
There is Nothing wrong with telling him he needs to figure out how to trust in order to be in a relationship with you.
If he refuses, well, then it’s good you found out who he is now.
I’m having a hard time understanding how hard a person can spiral from one person correcting them about their sex and then informing them that life can be lived normally.
I never mentioned any of the above things, and I’m starting to think you might be a troll if you’re saying things like that.
You post history indicates otherwise. This is exactly what your boyfriend does.
Sorry, but this guy is not a good one. You can do better.
She said she’d be a friend to you. Not a spy.
Yes she had VERY long hair. Yes and I love it
If I’d been out shopping for my son and his wife. I’d consider it the height if rudeness’s not to be allowed to step into the house at all.
You cannot use your mother as a delivery service and then treat her like shit. Maybe you and your wife should buy your own stuff from now on rather than ask your mum to do it on her way home from work, then make her stand outside like a delivery person.
God, how rude can you get?
Not helpful
Sounds like they both are.
I had to at the time. Extreme financial anxiety during the worst stock market meltdown of 50 years. So extreme the Dr gave me bi polar strength meds to calm me down. I didn't make the move for a change or to create heartache for my ex.
Honey, he has been looking for a reason to breakup.
BTW, Hubby saved pet hair from both our dogs.
I know that. I’m not upset about him not being ready for that. I know people are generally never ready in general. I’m more upset about him being wishy washy on living together.
“The perfect man” who has spent the last twenty years emotionally cheating on his wife by thinking about OP “daily”.
What's the saying again? “If he cheats with you, he will cheat on you.” Or something along those lines.
You barely know him. You've only been dating for 5 months. Don't blow up your life for someone you may not be with in a month or 2. Table this entire discussion for at least – at a very minimum – another 6 months. Then revisit the conversation if you're still together and tell him your boundaries: you want to be married first.
You have to run out of there because your going to get really hurt or worse by staying.
You really need input to let you know that your adult boyfriend should prioritize you over a video game?
Okay.
Your boyfriend should 100% be prioritizing you over a video game, or any other trivial nonsense for that matter. It might be time to think about trading him in for a better model if he hasn’t managed to grow up in the last 50 years.
Go on the trip and enjoy being single while you're at it. Good riddance
Of all the things you wrote, this is what stands out for me “I had problems as a child so my self esteem was -1/10” It sounds like she hit a real emotional nerve with your inner child, and you are reverting back to that boy who wasn't good enough, who didn't get enough love, who wasn't told he was _________ enough. You understand.
Sometimes, our issues growing up, get stifled when we start to get our needs met in other places. The pain get buried deep in a life that build for ourselves. Whether it's walls of our own making, or a much-needed survival effort that we must give ourselves to live.
You mention that having Kate reciprocate your feelings boosted your self esteem, I can imagine Kate was possibly the glue that held your confidence together. Having her BE the source for this, is/was dangerous. Having someone, other than yourself, else be the foundation you build your worth, is one of the reasons co-dependency is so unhealthy. You felt your safety in her, and when that safety was threatened? Your “glue” comes undone. The confidence wains, the self-esteems that you built upon anothers, crumbles. You crumble.
What is left, but the boy who never learned to love himself for exactly who he is. The boy who never healed these deep wounds. The wounds are resurfacing and they are being exposed and you need help to navigate this territory. Who are you without Kate beside you? Imagining her on some other journey with some other man is terrifying for you because you cannot imagine even a hypothetical version of this life.
Take some time to find a therapist who specialises in trauma therapy, because you have been inadvertently triggered. You have to start at the beginning to understand today. You will get through this.
Absolutely the best reply, I felt cheered up and I'm not even op
It’s always worthwhile to communicate your needs clearly to your spouse, and have her do that too, and listen to her. I’m sure you are both not entirely hitting the mark.
When you’re guiding her, why do you feel like it’s being blunt and hurting her feelings? You don’t have to criticize her. I’m sure there is a way to mechanically explain and show her what you want. She must be open to listening to you as well.
Bro if you want to lose your virginity, pay for an escort and gain some experience that way. Don't go on an entitled rant about how you feel because you fucked up.
Accept the consequences of your actions, own up to them, and man up. Stop objectifying women, and quit being a tool when they call you out on it. She had every right to be creeped out, and even more of a right to let people know what kind of person you are.
People aren't, “virgin shaming” you. They're you shaming. Pull your head out of your entitled ass.
Thats not ok. She’s hiding something. Remember private doesn’t mean secret
It's really none of his business please slept with before you were with him, it's deeply immature for him to lash out at you for that. However, it's made a lot worse given the fact that you were raped and his reaction was to shout at you and blame you for his feelings.
You didn't do anything wrong and he is acting awful. Based on this limited information, he sounds terrible. Is he normally more understanding? Is this out of character for him?
Given that this is someone you love, I'll give him the benefit of the doubt; people have a lot of strong reactions to finding out that someone they care about was raped. I have certainly gotten a reaction somewhat like this from a guy who cared about me when I told him, and I think the idea of it just really tore them apart and took it out on me a bit.
I think the only thing to do is to try and reestablish communication and figure out where he is at. Hopefully he can see that his reaction was childish and inappropriate, move to offer support. Couples therapy may help. However, if he's stubborn and awful that's a huge red flag and it might be time to think of an exit strategy.
Believe me and everyone else here when we say YOU CAN DO BETTER.
She has ZERO respect for you.
End it with her. It won't get better.
I don’t think you’re necessarily an AH for not cutting out Adam, but you should be prepared to lose Tonya as a friend. It’s okay for Tonya to decide she doesn’t want to be friends with anyone who’s still friends with Adam.
Ahhhh I got it now. Thanks for clarifying all that!
I’d let her know that you want to be mindful of her concerns, and if she wants to have a civil conversation, you’re here for it. But cursing you out, texting you angry texts isn’t productive, and it’s not acceptable anymore. Sometimes you just need a midnight snack. Sometimes you can’t sleep, and this helps you.
I suspect this has nothing to do with driving at night, or even being suspicious of you. I’m wondering if it more has to do with her feeling left alone in the middle of the night. So if she wants to have an honest conversation, then you definitely want to resolve this. But if all she’s interested in is being insulting and pretending it doesn’t happen, then it’s really disappointing for you.