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If you have to ask, then deep down, you already know. It seems to me like you were hoping to come on here and have people excuse your behavior so you feel better about yourself, but there’s a clear consensus here — you’re cheating.
Either way it’s weird she literally mentions him for no good reason. It’s so unnecessary especially comparing the two of you? That’s too much.
Well, I personally haven't been in a situation where my friends left me because of the person I've dated, and I would say I've been with people a little bit older than me. Not 10+ years older, but still.
Also, I'm not from the US so age gaps aren't that big of a deal here. If you like him that's what ultimately should matter.
I don’t think you’d be wise to continue to believe his lies. Obviously he had to know, he’s been deceptive all along. You have to decide if you can live with someone who’s quite likely to be popping out babies with random strippers whenever the urge takes him. Or pick up your self esteem and start a new life. I guess either way your starting a new life, one with acceptance he won’t be honest or loyal, the other on your own with your dignity.
Sending you love cause this can be very difficult and distrusting
I lost my kids and wife. I couldn't keep any. Had to restart alone. Didn't think I could. But I did. Took years. But here I am.
To be a good man, listen. I know your doing that. Try, I know your doing that. I'd try working out. It helped me. My mind would drift. Sometimes I'd have a couple tears flowing before the set was through. It helped. Took some numbness away, sometimes. Also mints. It helped. I don't know why. Mints. Good luck. Stay blessed. And remember you love her as much as you can, always.
I meant from the time you weren't together
ok ok…fair enough…give me your address and I'll pass along some PENISillin. 🙂
Alright thanks, i will consider it
Sounds like bait ngl.
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Even if that was the case, cutting OP off isn't a good or productive course of action.
To be fair, OP said they were taken by the ex, not sent.
Visiting a kink page for locals isn’t concerning behavior to you…?
He’s a mommas boy red flag ?
She would know if she’d told Julia to get something from your room. It’s worth checking with her but I think your husband’s reaction is pretty off. I wouldn’t want a stranger in my bedroom for any reason.
Yes, I had already corrected myself before you commented.
Kids definitely use it more and differently than people my age do, but I like sending goofy pics or short videos to people I know and Snapchat is the best for that!
They’re on the pill and using condoms, and she knows the count. Ah, those pesky detailed details detailing dastardly deeds. D’oh.
I think maybe there are a couple of things here you aren’t admitting to yourself. Grieving a dead relationship and being ‘alone’ is hard. But self pity is not the answer. Stop and look at yourself and the good things about you. No one is you and no one will ever be you. You are unique and special to your family and even if you currently can’t see it, that doesn’t mean they don’t show it. Your children love you. Your family loves you. Heck, your ex must do too. You birthed his children. The only person who doesn’t seem to love you, is you. So it’s ok to take a break and fully focus on yourself. These are just your small dark days. You are allowed to feel shitty. You’ll be just fine.
Lmao you don’t actually like this guy as more than a friend OR (bc of the ages) you may just be having a lubrication problem. ?
He is an alcoholic.
Be proud of you.
How the hell can they say second chance when she cheated multiple times?! Tell her parents to get the police involved and to get her professional help also get you close friends and family involved to keep you from being manipulated again, also get therapy, you need it
This is good advice.
It's giving … Gold digger
She's a sick fuck.
Show your family this post. My stomach would turn if I read someone was doing this to my family member, letalonevsomeone I'd naivly been nice to.
The wink at the end?? ?
She's sadist who sees you as an easy target but a fun kill.
show your family this post, if they are normal people, they will be horrified & sickened. And never let her cast her shadow around you & their grace again. Cousin's gf or not.
Honestly she sounds dangerous.
Because 50% of Reddit advice would have no responses if people didn’t. Just supposed to ignore that part. Just think of it as what it is, a badly written hypothetical and thought experiment.
You WERE very close. Letting your sister be rather severely punished because you’re too much of a coward to say that the condoms are yours is the kind of thing that damages relationships irreparably. At least she knows now that you can’t be trusted. I think it’s always better to know that about someone before you put yourself in a position to need them for anything that matters.
grey rock for the win!
I wouldn’t say she groomed him. It’s kind of all a mess really. She sees a therapist right now. I just don’t know many details about that mainly bc well I can’t communicate with her.
The resolution is she goes, gets seduced, comes back and don't tell u, continues affair and then dumps u. Read the same script here 100 times.
The reason why u might be common denominator as u say is because u don't know when to take a stand for yourself. She already sensed ur weakness and bow she's in the driver's seat.
my partner’s secret child that just came into our lives.
Partners, unknown, child. OP didn't know about the child. There never was a secret.
I hope you write for a living. This is perfectly put. If I believed in funding Reddit I’d award you.
Sometimes a huge fight is necessary.
She's just angry at the idea of being shown up as a ' pick me!'
At some stage, they will all find out he's his son. The longer her lies go on, the harder it will be for her to fess up.
She's the one who has made herself look ridiculous in the first place.
Is she expecting her husband to lie about this too, to back her up?
Honestly, from your OP, is the past cheating even relevant too your current relationship issue(s)?
This sounds more like LDR has been killing communication between the two of you. At the end of the day, you're feelings are valid, your mistake doesn't validate his mistakes, and if he's entertaining another woman it sounds like he might soon make the same mistake you did 2 years ago… If so, that is shame on him, not you, that would not be your fault.
An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.
The way I read your OP it sounds like bf already has 1 foot out the door with the 2nd VERY close behind. At the end of the day, if he's unwilling to work on the relationship, you can't make him stay and fix the relationship, you're best off to let him go.
The unemployed guy who trashed your apartment won't give you money and you're surprised by this?
I mean you're already 19 years old and it's been two weeks might as well just get married and pop out a couple of kids nothing really else you can do.
Oh wait, did you mean your ex's new partner is unattractive, old and overweight? Or your new partner?