Yeah…I hope she goes with it. She is very upset and it doesn’t look like she will go through with it unfortunately. She says she feels too sad to abort the baby and I get that i will never be in the same mindset as the woman but it will just make our lives so hard once it’s born
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This isn't fair to either of you. You're leading her on, and you're stuffing your own feelings down and ignoring them for convenience. Don't do it anymore. Tell her that while you think she is a wonderful person with an amazing personality, you aren't sexually compatible and she deserves better. You both deserve better. Tell her you're sorry and understand if she doesn't want to stay friends, but this has to end now and you hope she can forgive you for the hurt this might cause right now.
So you've never been frustrated when someone canceled plans? It's the same thing. He's allowed to be upset, but only to a degree. I agree if he can't drop it then it's abusive. And it's true that he didn't establish either, but it's not a boundary of his that's been crossed here. It's more that his store has unlabeled products, and she mistakenly bought the wrong item. Sure, he should label his products, but she agreed to shopping at the mystery store
yes basically. He always brags about how well he treats me to others and fails to know his behaviours are in fact hurting me.
Yeah…I hope she goes with it. She is very upset and it doesn’t look like she will go through with it unfortunately. She says she feels too sad to abort the baby and I get that i will never be in the same mindset as the woman but it will just make our lives so hard once it’s born
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This isn't fair to either of you. You're leading her on, and you're stuffing your own feelings down and ignoring them for convenience. Don't do it anymore. Tell her that while you think she is a wonderful person with an amazing personality, you aren't sexually compatible and she deserves better. You both deserve better. Tell her you're sorry and understand if she doesn't want to stay friends, but this has to end now and you hope she can forgive you for the hurt this might cause right now.
100% agree with you here. She wants to stay in the country. I think that dude needs to be very very careful.
LDR generally just don’t work out. I think if he doesn’t plan on living near you don’t bother.
So you've never been frustrated when someone canceled plans? It's the same thing. He's allowed to be upset, but only to a degree. I agree if he can't drop it then it's abusive. And it's true that he didn't establish either, but it's not a boundary of his that's been crossed here. It's more that his store has unlabeled products, and she mistakenly bought the wrong item. Sure, he should label his products, but she agreed to shopping at the mystery store