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Date: October 29, 2022
Exactly, OP is insecure. She needs to just sit down and reflect on her insecurity. Why is she assuming that she isn’t his sexual preference? That’s so weird to me.
I see you've had a lot of people telling you to dump him, which you probably should, but if you're not ready to: try randomly telling him that you'll find him much less attractive if his hair starts thinning, or that you only find him attractive with the exact amount of facial hair that he has right now.
I think I'm going to do the same normalized thing. As for talking to G, the fight on Sunday was a bit of a microcosm of our issues. We'd both make mistakes and fight, but in the past year and a half he's gotten in the habit of sending me super rash and long texts that are so out of touch with his own behavior and reality. He makes huge eye rolls, snaps with a condescending tone, and is extremely belligerent, and it takes a lot of talking and work to make him understand my side.
He's a good guy, but he has little to no self awareness about his behavior, simply thinking that his intent is all that matters/no one knows what he's really feeling, etc. He's fine with admitting I can read him when he isn't mad at me or in conflict, but the second we ARE in conflict all of a sudden I read into everything in the worst possible light, I don't know him or his intent, etc. This past fight was a lot of delusional bullshit, and when I explained to him that his behavior, regardless of how he meant it or how he saw it, was making me walk on eggshells… he just said that's my own fault and just because I feel that way doesn't mean he's laying any eggshells out. Just complete denial about his culpability or his contribution to our tension.
Small things like “he got a bit annoyed, but I snapped at him”. Do you get that? Reframing things. He only got a bit annoyed, but I snapped at him. Downplaying his own behavior and disregarding context. Typing this all out it must seem like I can't stand the guy, and it's kind of true. I'm torn between just letting all his nonsense go and writing it off as the behavior of a little baby, or not spending any more time on him at all. It's tough, but I have put in a lot of effort to talk, and try to get him to understand me. In my friend group im the intuitive, in touch with emotions one. I'm very good at reading people and situations, even if I make mistakes… I'm very confident in my appraisal of social conflicts and how people feel. But it's too much from him, so often.
He is definitely insecure. Has been very jealous of my interactions with male classmates and needs explanations to prove my innocence to go with everything I share. He apologizes for it afterwards but it isnt improving and he blames that on fact we havent seen each other in a month.
It clearly wasn’t an amazing connection on his part if he’s on tinder and seeking a connection elsewhere
He did you a favour. Don't date insecure men. If they ask you to limit contact with people in your life end it right then and there
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