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Mayy (22) & Ben (23), 23 y.o.
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Date: October 24, 2022
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In the end, we did sit and talk. A lot of work for both ahead, but we’re both willing to work – this is the most important thing.
Thank you all very much! I will surely go to therapist myself, and we’ll do what is needed to overcome the crisis:)
Your thought process on this is correct. As long as cheating isn’t involved then she’s showing you her true colors and they aren’t good.
I mean, this might be an isolated drink incident. If he has a history of this kind of shit, whether drunk or not, I'd say it's a red flag, but we've all done stupid shit while drunk. He didn't do anything unforgivable here, just moronic and disrespectful.
If she had told him to turn it down and he backhanded her, that would be an instant done, for example.
I get that and I really respect your willingness to self-examine. If you're willing to keep digging and working on yourself, in therapy and outside of it, I expect you'll really be able to self-actualize.
He sounds like he needs some serious therapy. This is verbal and emotional abuse. If you don’t want a baby, don’t make yourself have one. It sounds like you guys either need INTENSE couple counseling NOW or go your separate ways because you don’t deserve this horrible treatment. I can’t fathom how hard this has been on you and his lack of empathy and me me me attitude is very troubling.
Just ask him what his intentions are, and if they don't line up with yours, then move on. It seems clear that you are also in it for a purpose as well. State that
Come on, the whole setup is sleazy. I'm not assuming anything, it's a sleazy ask.
Literally say everything you said in the post
This. Me and my GF were long distance for about a year and we went toy shopping. When we finally met in person I surprised her with a vibrator (probably could have asked, but I risked it).
I've used it on her a few times but its tough for me because its not as.. tactile (?) as me using my fingers/tongue.
Oh honey you still are. You’re both in for a whirlwind of change as you go through your 20s and discover who you are. It sounds like you got stuck with a bad decision early on. You can try counseling if you really want, but then you have to ask yourself if you want to be stuck with a woman who disrespects you to the point of you having to slam a door to get away from her….
Your sister and her baby are the main characters in their life. Your family has many people they have to take care of and cannot make your sister and her baby the center of their universe even if they wanted to.
Your parents could say that your sister should be helping out with the grandparents. Anyone can have expectations it doesn't mean we have to meet them. There are many single moms struggling without help, she is not alone in that. It sucks to not have people to help you. Unfortunately, you can't force people to do what you want. They will help you when and how they want, expecting more will leave her disappointed and feeling resentful.
Some of your comments make your sister sound self-centered. Her not liking that people ask more about the baby than her. The baby is constantly growing, changing, reaching new milestones. Your sister is not going through the same type of changes and growth. People won't be as interested in her weekly progress, or whether she is sleeping through the night.
Hopefully your sister learns that everyone's life doesn't revolve around her, and that is ok. As adults we are ultimately responsible for ourselves and should be grateful for any help, and attention we receive. We are owed nothing.
The proletariats of la-la land
It’s not a confidence thing so much as I don’t want him to think I’m mean, im always very conscious about how others perceive my kindness/firmness. I don’t like being called mean or angry when im not trying to be 🙁
Let me correct this: the right term to use “EX-boyfriend.”
He broke up with you and made sure you're the cause of it.
In reality, he knocked up another person and gonna be a daddy.
Honestly? You probably should be happy he's not with you anymore. Idk how you should feel..but I'd say RELIEF.
Well, I was in a similar situation once. My (now ex) bf and I had been dating almost three years and were due to move in together at the end of the summer. However I switched gears when I started to have feelings for someone else. I wasn't sure how much longer I wanted to commit to the relationship and didn't want to sign a lease if I thought things might end between us.
I'm not saying that's what's happening here, but it might be worth it to ask if she's having doubts about the two of you being together long term.
YTA, what you did Was awful. People here have said you ask them on an actual date first. You basically said to her that you're only good enough for sex. Can you imagine how that makes a girl feel having some dude say that to her. You basically cheapened her. It seems you don't get it and you're only upset because she is telling everyone. What you did was insulting.
Did her long distance bf propose? Because if relationships only start for her when the guy proposes – how is she cheating on her bf? Because bf is not fiancé.
In other words she’s a whole mess of crazy, cheating liar and you should count your blessings you’re rid of her.
Sounds like they want him to marry a traditional Asian woman. Does he say anything to them?
First of all break up with him. Second go to therapy, speaking from experience your future partners will thank you. It’s not your fault that guy just sucks. Move on and be happier for it.
I didn’t even read the whole post. The fact that he planned an entire FLIGHT to go fuck someone else says it all. You CAN do better than this. I promise. I’m sorry this was done to you.
Hah! No. Who's she going to hook up with at a wedding of 30 people? Her grandparents?
People seem to have jumped straight into suggestings for you to get him help, and while he does sound like he needs some help, I doubt you are in a position to provide it. Especially because you're barely out of your teens, and just want to have some fun while you're still in your party years. And as an older, chronically ill woman, I totally support you in this.
It would be different, perhaps, if you guys were older, and had been married a long time. But you're not. You're just a kid. A kid who has been with this slightly too old guy since you were 16. Go forth and party!
It's possible that leaving is the best thing you can do for him. Lots of people improve their lives after they get dumped. But even more people waste years of their partners' lives resisting every reasonable urging to seek help. Don't wait until you're 30, with two kids. Because I can tell you that is really no fun at all.
She is just not that close to you to have you there yet and you went and snooped in her phone??? You crossed boundaries. She doesn’t have to have you there no matter what her SIL thinks. You don’t get to force yourself in her private life more than she is ready to share with you.
What kind of partner are you to her?
Autism bruv