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Nothing sounds too weird about this. You might just be over thinking things.
Staying back on her first day might be explained by her being keen to learn or didn't want to appear lazy on her first day.
Gaps in messages are just how some people communicate online – might seem strange but that's just how they are 🙂
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Wow, those are good. I understand it seems like an easy fix, I obviously am not stating everything in our relationship. Ut after creating a life for six years with someone it's terrifying to think it might all be gone. Along with the fact I don't want to hurt him. It's unfortunately complicated and something I struggle with.
Smh. If there was ever a divorce case where a father could get 50-50 custody – if not primary – it's this one. Not only did she cheat multiple times, you only found out because someone else would've told you instead of her, so she's not remorseful in the least. Having a serial cheater and liar for a mother (not to mention a thirsty narcissist and gaslighter) is damaging to the kids. But – more importantly – she brought something home to you, and drugged you without your knowledge or consent. Doing something illegal to CYA, that's next level damaging for the kids. Cheating is bad enough, but with the right lawyer, passing on the STD and drugging you should cost her at least half, if not most/all of the custody.
Since you'd be the one filing first – with plenty of just cause – take your time (but not too long) to find a good lawyer. Yeah, it sucks to pay for the initial consult, especially for someone you may not use (the ones with free consults need the business, so generally avoid them – you get what you pay for), but it'll be worth it to find a lawyer who's going to be in your corner and fight for you. Especially a female lawyer. It sounds like this is not going to end amicably, so recall how effective having a good female lawyer was in the JD-AH case.
If you're not going to stand up for yourself, at least do it for your kids. They see more than you realize, and her behavior is dangerous, reckless, and will eventually end up costing them way more than you ever know. I don't come from divorced parents, and I don't typically counsel people to divorce, but you and the kids will be better off not being around her toxicity. My ex blew up my marriage trying to leave the state with our kids without notice – think about it, that could be you. Your wife is only with you because you're her meal ticket. Once she's got a better deal, she's off, and maybe she'll take the kids with her too. Then where will you be? Pants down in the wind because you chose to “stay for the kids.” And then you'll have to settle for a lousy lawyer who probably won't even get you 50-50 custody. So follow through with your threat – but just keep your mouth shut to her (she's the enemy, and you don't share battle strategy with the enemy), and keep meeting with lawyers until you find one who will fight to get you primary custody and her kicked to the curb without collecting the usual cash and prizes from the divorce court system.
Again, you've been a doormat until now, but I'd like you to consider 2 scenarios. 1) Rather than drugging you, picture that someone harmed and drugged one of your kids. Hopefully your paternal instinct would take over at that point and you wouldn't rest until that person is behind bars, so try and channel that courage here. You're marriage is over, so realize that and act to minimize any future damage caused to the kids, but especially you. Because 2) God forbid you stay together and then tragically get in an accident and end up in a coma or incapacitated in the hospital – would you literally trust her with your life? She's already showed you that she's capable of drugging you without you knowing, so she could even end you in the hospital without anyone else ever knowing. Blame it on a nurse or CNA who gave you an “incorrect dose” or the “wrong medicine,” and now you're room temperature and she's collecting your life insurance to go “live her best life” getting piped down. And your kids will have front row seats because they'd only be with her since you'd literally be gone.
You need to think, but more importantly, act. We men take so many Ls in divorce court; be the exception and save your kids and yourself from this woman, and get the W in court because you've got great cards to play if you get the right lawyer. But the longer you wait to pull the trigger on starting the divorce, the more it's going to cost you. Literally. Because if you're in an alimony state, you needed to be divorced yesterday. You didn't indicate how long you were married, but the longer you wait, the more she's going to get from you.
Once all this is behind you, yeah, you can date again if you want, but honestly, just be the best father to your kids that you can be and work on yourself, and the rest will fall into place. But you have to take the first step by listening to everyone here and acting now to put this cheater in the rearview mirror.
As far as the age gap goes, 29 is an age where you’re much more settled in yourself and if you’re self aware and know what you want, it’s not a problem. He’s making excuses because he changed his mind. He needs to say what he wants and be certain.
You should stay gone.
He's 10 years older than you and is demanding money from you? NOT COOL, you're only 21 and JUST getting started in your adult life. He made you miss eating! No no no no no!
Just remember there may become a time and place where you no longer trust each other. You are both young. Relationships don't always last forever
I bet OP wasn't even mentioned.
Are you sleeping in the same room as your house mate!?
Ask them to lay off the dairy perhaps…
Ask her to go to a naturopath with you, because you think it would be a good idea for each others health
Sleep in another room
Absolutely.