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Date: October 17, 2022
Can’t relate I was a cum dumpster for my husband years before we married ???
I mean, if you don't want to take plan B, that is 100% your decision, but your decision seems to be based on assumptions and just plain incorrect beliefs, so…
That’s great. It’s just clearly been happening in secret which makes me sick. Why wasn’t I included?
He didn't “let” you drink? Just that is controlling af.
You say “attached”, but it may just be scary to leave what you know. You are young and it sounds like you have matured more quickly than your boyfriend. At his age, it's not uncommon for him to be floundering about what he wants to do. On the other hand, you seem to have some ambition and interest in deeper subjects.
Why not break up and start hanging around with people who you find match your intellect and energy? Not necessarily diving into another romantic relationship, just surrounding yourself with people you actually enjoy spending time with.
Red Flag for sure. You say that “his values were one of the things that attracted me to him”, but he continues to lie to you and break his word to you. I guess his values are “flexible”.
But, but I love him no matter what. Please want and find better.
This is the biggest thing you need to focus on.
Your relationship may be great now, but if you split up after a decade of being a SAH mom, you then have kids which you can't support, with very little relevant work experience to help you find a job.
I would also be hesitant because it causes such a power imbalance in relationships where one person is responsible for all the money, especially when it is a long-term, ongoing thing (IE them supporting you to study, then to be a SAH mom for many years).
Personally, I'd say no. It's one thing to not work during the first year, or to work part-time while they are young. But for it to be a REQUIRED condition of you having children, I wouldn't feel good about that.
“He drives my head in circles” girl run that's a manipulative tactic.
I see your point, but first I want to see if therapy and changing/going off of BC can help
Gonna need more info. You know like what std, as some are fairly common and can be acquired in ways other that sex…so fill in the detail
Yes you do know. Ultimatum time: Get a job or that’s it. Oh and I’d also definitely not have unprotected sex with her.
This seems like something from high school.
> know she wants me to chase her but I’m not doing it.
Ok, then chase her if that's what she wants, and you want to do it too. In my opinion, it sounds like game playing, and I'd run away as fast as I can. Once she's “caught”, she'll get bored and leave you.
Also, the more they write, the clearer ITV's that this is a troll. Look at all her comments.
She keeps changing the story to get more outrage. Hence why the bride was outed as disabled and why sone 24 year old bum with no job is writing a memoir and apparently plans to have a PhD. In her last post age was worried about her friends ostracism but now apparently they are all giving her money freely.
She never previously mentioned any engagement with the groom, but now he's a secret ex who still loves her (unlikely given they are like 24 – HOW would she have dated him with NONE of their mutual friends knowing about it, nor how the groom would get to marrying his wife and never mentioned this fact.
It is simply implausible. And the level of deliberate denseness and fake innocence that OP tries to put on in comments just confirms that they know exactly how to rage bait.
1) Find a new job 2) Call the police
As a dude I feel like more of us should shave down there.
Talk to him and delete reddit. It seems the trust was already broken when he was messaging people on here TBH. You both need to concentrate on real life, not online stuff.
Check your dms… jk lol
I’m sorry but it sounds like she’s not an ex, he’s still fully dedicated to her despite knowing how much strain this puts on you, his fiancé. You’re not the bad guy, I’d consider cancelling the engagement and leaving him tbh
Harsh but fair. I'm not here just to whine, I just genuinely have never fallen for someone so hard. I just don't know how to get my mind off of her everytime I try to see other people I feel like I'm emotional cheating on myself. I just struggle to accept the maybe as a no. I try not to be pushy about it with her. But yeah I see what you're saying I just need to suck it up accept the heartache and let her go. Even if it is a genuine maybe I don't want that uncertainty as its detrimental to myself
So now you agree??
Dump his ass
Okay, fossile here from the previous century who’s still trying to understand this topic. Are they non-binary if they still identify as their ‘original’ gender?
For the rest: you sound like you respected your boyfriends wishes and even made sure you did it right. T seems to be projecting their issues.
I had co worker explain to me that she started hooking up with her step brother around 16. They knew each other since they were 3….
It sounds like she found another emotional/sexual relationship.
Yeah, well either way I’ll ask him some questions and either move forward or not at all rather than staying stagnated which is good.
Then take him on a day trip in your area, Google attractions near you, you will be surprised. Also, it's not about what you missed as a child, it's about what he wants now. Don't mix up the two; that just sets him up for teenage resentments. Figure out a few fun things you could do together (pizza night, sports game, children's museum, hotel with a indoor pool) and let him pick.
So I dated a girl like this. Her job allowed her to telework. She owed a house in like Arkansas but she lived in a van and moved place to place. Made a shit ton of money, but just didn't want to settle in one area. She would stay here for a few weeks and then I wouldn't see her for 3 months. Basically, she was a hippie with a white collar job.
Obviously we weren't exclusive, obviously she was banging people in other towns, and I kind of felt like most of the time she was trading sex for a place to crash other than her van – but whatever. Eventually I started dating someone else more seriously and she hit me up on one of her visits and I had to tell her to find other accommodations.
Honestly it’s not even the fact that he used the chat bot… some people don’t know what to say. In a way, it’s not that different from asking a friend to help you write a message, or buying a card with a pre-written message on it. It’s his REACTION to the fact that you’re hurt. Why is he laughing??? Why is he using your relationship as an opportunity to prove some kind of point about AI? All you wanted was something personal. He could have at least validated your feelings.
I honestly wish I was trolling. I've been having problems since this started and I think it's more of a mental emasculation and frustration that I'm dealing with more than physical problems.